> > I see myself as already tormented and haunted between 'let it go' and
> forget <isomorphic to> never forgive'. <
> Fascinating perspective. Thanks for writing, Ron.
> I wonder, though...
> As a Christian, who studies reconciliation, I tend to draw a strong
> ditinction between forgetting and forgiving. To not forgive is to, in my
> mind, keep a wound open, perhaps intentionally stoking the pin to prevent
> forgetfulness. (that's 'pain' not 'pin, sorry). Forgiveness is letting
> go, and responding in love rather than anger.
again CobraBoy! to the rescue.
easy as 1 - 2 - 3.
Care about people's approval and you will be their prisoner.
-Toa Te Ching