[FoRK] I've joined the modern era

Adam L Beberg beberg at mithral.com
Wed Feb 4 11:56:48 PST 2009

silky wrote on 2/1/2009 7:37 PM:
> And to be honest, in regards to "reconnecting with old friends", my
> general opinion on that is that I'm not in contact with them now for a
> reason ... because I never cared. I don't see why that would change.

Any sociologist (and lots of other people) can tell you that humans can 
maintain about 200 "connections" at a time, and only a handful of those 
are close. This is because relationships of any kind take time and 
active maintenance, time is finite, thus the connections must also be 

The nice thing about catering to the youth tho is that there are always 
more people coming along that don't know that yet, and will add 500+ 
"friends". But everyone eventually does realize it, and gets on with 
their life with their current friends.

Certainly I "get" social networks, and I'm on LinkedIn, because they 
were ballsy enough to figure out an actual BUSINESS MODEL - pimping all 
the info out to recruiters - which I'm OK with because we're all there 
to track our business contacts. I can hang out with my friend in the 
real world and with IM/email, thanks. Fackbook on the other hand 
had(has) no model at all for making money, and is now going to sell 
anything they can to everyone they can.

Frankly this depression (yea we're there) is going to force almost the 
entire ad-supported internet to resort to a lot of slimy things. Which 
is sad because since nobody has a business model, so they are doomed 
anyway. But for every major site with ads, there are 5 with _zero_ model 
for paying the bills *cough* Digg *cough*.

Advertising only works when the sheep are desperate to buy things they 
don't need with money they don't have. That's over.

Adam L. Beberg

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